The Swank Counseling Blog

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Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT


Mental Health, Anxiety & Stress, Self-Care, Personal Growth, Women's Wellness Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT Mental Health, Anxiety & Stress, Self-Care, Personal Growth, Women's Wellness Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT

Why Is It So Hard to Know What You Need?

When someone asks what you need and your mind goes blank, it's not a personal failing. It's usually a sign you've had more practice taking care of everyone else than checking in with yourself. In this week's article, Dr. Quinnett Swank explains why your own needs can feel so hard to name and shares four small, doable steps to identify what would help and ask for support without having the perfect words.

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Why Am I So Hard on Myself? How to Stop Being Your Own Biggest Critic

If you’re constantly replaying mistakes, questioning yourself, or feeling like nothing you do is quite enough, self-criticism may be doing more harm than good. Learn how anxiety, perfectionism, and impossible standards can fuel your inner critic, and how to respond without lowering your standards.

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Personal Growth, Anxiety, Trauma & Healing, Relationships & Couples Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT Personal Growth, Anxiety, Trauma & Healing, Relationships & Couples Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT

How to Let Go of the Past and Start Fresh in 2026

As 2026 begins, you might feel ready for a fresh start—but still weighed down by old memories, anxiety, perfectionism, or relationship patterns that keep repeating. In this post, you’ll learn why letting go of the past is emotionally challenging, how unresolved experiences show up in the present, and how therapy can support emotional healing so you can step into the new year with more clarity, calm, and space to breathe.

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Mental Health & Wellness, Relationship Support, Personal Growth Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT Mental Health & Wellness, Relationship Support, Personal Growth Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT

How to Create Meaningful New Year’s Resolutions That Stick

If you feel pressured every January to “be a new person,” you’re not alone. Many high-stress adults struggle with follow-through because traditional resolutions ignore New Year mental health, emotional readiness, and values-based goals. In this post, you’ll learn how to create New Year’s resolutions that stick, plus how therapy for personal growth in Las Vegas, Nevada can help you make sustainable change.

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