The Swank Counseling Blog
Written by
Dr. Quinnett Swank, EdD, LMFT
Why Is It So Hard to Know What You Need?
When someone asks what you need and your mind goes blank, it's not a personal failing. It's usually a sign you've had more practice taking care of everyone else than checking in with yourself. In this week's article, Dr. Quinnett Swank explains why your own needs can feel so hard to name and shares four small, doable steps to identify what would help and ask for support without having the perfect words.
Why Am I So Hard on Myself? How to Stop Being Your Own Biggest Critic
If you’re constantly replaying mistakes, questioning yourself, or feeling like nothing you do is quite enough, self-criticism may be doing more harm than good. Learn how anxiety, perfectionism, and impossible standards can fuel your inner critic, and how to respond without lowering your standards.
5 Ways to Manage Anxiety at Work: Therapy-Informed Tools That Help
Struggling with stress or anxiety at work? Discover 5 therapy-informed ways to manage anxiety and feel more grounded in your job.
Feeling Stuck? 3 Ways to Move Forward
Feeling stuck, lost, or not like yourself? This post offers 3 small, therapist-backed steps to help you move forward with more clarity and calm.
Simple Ways to Create a Calmer, More Connected Home
Parenting stress doesn’t always look like chaos — it can show up as tension, short tempers, or disconnection. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist Intern, shares simple ways families in Nevada can create calmer homes and strengthen daily connection.
Emotional Intimacy: What It Is and Why It Matters More Than Sex
Intimacy isn’t just physical — it’s the emotional safety that builds trust and closeness. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist Intern, explains why emotional intimacy often matters more than sex and shares practical ways Nevada couples can strengthen their connection.
Why Couples Stop Talking and How to Break the Silence
Silence in relationships doesn’t always mean peace — it can signal disconnection, resentment, or stress. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist Intern, explains why couples stop talking and shares practical strategies Nevada couples can use to rebuild communication and connection.
Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish: The Psychology of Taking Care of You
Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s essential for emotional health and connection. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist Intern, explains the psychology of self-care and shares practical ways Nevada clients can build sustainable practices that restore energy, resilience, and self-worth.
Grounding Techniques You Can Use Anywhere
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic. It can show up as racing thoughts, overwhelm, or physical tension. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist, shares simple grounding techniques you can use anywhere in Nevada to calm anxiety, regulate your nervous system, and bring yourself back to the present moment.
Morning Routines That Help Calm Anxiety and Set the Tone for Your Day
Morning anxiety doesn’t always look like panic. It can show up as racing thoughts, restlessness, or feeling “behind” before the day begins. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist, shares therapist-approved morning routines to calm anxiety, regulate your nervous system, and set the tone for a more peaceful day.
Managing Anxiety: Recognizing the Signs and Taking Control
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic, it can be overthinking, constant worry, or quiet self-doubt. Dr. Quinnett Swank, a Las Vegas Marriage and Family Therapist, shares strategies to manage anxiety, build self-awareness, and restore peace of mind.